Hexagram 54 · 雷泽归妹
The Marrying Maiden
Wood · Dui palace
A secondary role; enthusiasm outpacing the position.
Meaning
Thunder above the lake: movement following feeling. The Marrying Maiden concerns entering a situation in a subordinate position, often with more eagerness than standing.
Decision Framework
Do not overreach; accept the position you actually hold.
Decision Guidance
The Marrying Maiden is an unfavourable reading, and its warning is about position rather than people. It describes a situation where someone enters on enthusiastic terms into a role that is structurally secondary and then finds the constraints hard.
The classical counsel is to keep your expectations aligned with your actual standing. It does not forbid the arrangement, but it identifies the failure mode clearly: acting as though you hold authority you do not hold, or assuming the initial warmth will survive unchanged. Accept the role for what it is, or decline it, but do not proceed on a misread of your own position.
Judgment — Classical Text
征凶，无攸利。
EN Advancing brings misfortune; nothing furthers.
The Six Lines — Classical Text
初九：归妹以娣，跛能履，征吉。
EN Initial nine: the marrying sister as a secondary wife — the lame can still walk: advancing brings good fortune.
九二：眇能视，利幽人之贞。
EN Nine in the second: one-eyed yet able to see — the solitary one's perseverance furthers.
六三：归妹以须，反归以娣。
EN Six in the third: the marrying sister delayed, returning as a secondary wife.
九四：归妹愆期，迟归有时。
EN Nine in the fourth: the marriage is delayed — the late marriage has its time.
六五：帝乙归妹，其君之袂不如其娣之袂良。
EN Six in the fifth: the emperor gives his sister in marriage; the princess's sleeves are not as fine as the secondary wife's — the moon nearly full: good fortune.
上六：女承筐无实，士刲羊无血。
EN Topmost six: the woman holds a basket with nothing in it; the man stabs the sheep and there is no blood — nothing furthers.
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